Coaching

People’s own stories and their feed back comments are real life recommendations. There is nothing to better these comments.

The following are two real case histories, though some facts have been changed for confidentiality reasons:

One of the early clients to take this option was Richard (not his real name). Richard had created and built a modern, energetic company to serve a growing need. After 10 years or so, he had achieved his first major goal when his CFO announced the company was worth £20 million. Richard then enacted the second part of his master plan, which was not exactly evident in the companies business plan. In a matter of a short period of time the second phase of his strategy had completely backfired and the company went into free fall. The bones were picked over by a few scavengers and that was that.

After a year of hate, anger and accusations Richard called Robert Denton and booked in for the extreme coaching weekend (Friday to Monday). This and all extreme coaching’s are held in a high mountain chalet in the French Alps. When Richard was collected at Geneva aeroport he was a shadow of his former self. That night he left the parking on a quiet mountain road and started his extreme coaching. He stepped into a set of snow shoes, pulled the fixings tight and headed up the mountain in almost a metre of fresh powder show. In the next 40 minutes Richard was faced by himself the unfamiliar semi-darkness and -14°C. Completely disoriented in a totally white landscape only lit by a crescent moon and the stars above he had no option but to let go of his hate and anger and trust in his guide.

The next morning at 06:00 Richard was found outside putting his snow shoes on. When asked where he was going, he answered, "I do not believe what I did last night, I just have to do that again to make sure it was real." 36 hours later Richard had broken through his cloud of hate, anger and distrust of everyone. At 14:00 hours on the second day of his extreme coaching while in the middle of an exercise Richard suddenly froze. There was silence for a few seconds, then Richard said, "It was all my fault. I destroyed my own company and I did not know what I was doing."

As the creation of new thinking patterns began to replace the old, Richard was suddenly struck by a completely different point of view from within himself. In that moment he saw what had happened to destroy his company with completely different eyes. His thinking had just made a quantum leap from his previous self delusion thinking patterns to that of an undeniable truth that everyone else who knew the details was aware of.

Within a year Richard had sorted out his life, found an ailing company, raised the money to buy it. Within one month of taking control he had doubled its turnover and put the company on the road to profit.

There is nothing like a real life story to paint a picture of changing from hate and anger to determination and courage. From lost to success is but a changed point of view.

Another case history is of Margret (not her real name). Margret is the manager of a company. When she took over the seat of power and leadership, she also inherited a 12 year old problem her predecessor had been unable to resolve. For another 12 years Margret fought with this problem without success. Another problem was however dominating her attention and fear was growing. She loathed and feared the monthly directors meeting she had to address. Over the course of her Extreme Coaching, Margret mastered a new set of beliefs, values and behaviours(skills). On her return she fixed the 24 year old problem in a matter of weeks. The next directors meeting she handled with extreme confidence and was for the first time invited to lunch with the Chairman. He was so impressed by the change he gave Margret his personal office and home telephone numbers, inviting her to contact him at any time should she have anything important she wished to discuss with him. This extraordinary change occurred after 12 hours of retraining and refreshing old or adopting new values and thinking behaviour patterns most appropriate to her position and her directors expectations.

This is what Chuck said from southern California:

"Thank you so much for all that advice about the 7th Sense. You've already given me tips that I can immediately see will be helpful." Then chuck explains some painful events in his life. He goes on to say, "I know that I am more than capable of thriving in this world, but like you say, I have years of false beliefs and expectations that simply need to be replaced for that to happen. Following your help I am beginning to make real progress at last."

Jake from Cape town South Africa said:

“Sinse the age of 5 or 6 I had been told I was a chronic depressive. I was told this so frequently I began to believe it. When at the age of 8 my mother told me she did not want me and wanted an abortion. On hearing this for a second time some years later and that I had ruined her life, I really did become depressed. From then on I only saw blackness and became fearful of any pleasure as I knew it would stop at some point. That made me feel even more depressed. I was frightened to think of the future so my sense of future was the time and space immediately ahead of me. 30 years later while working with you for the first time I was surprised when you said you did not feel I was a depressive at all. This made me really wonder. Then you said my history seemed more like overwhelming stress. I have to keep pinching myself to realise after only 5 sessions I have planned to change my job also to find my own apartment. I have been planning all the detail inside. I have also started planning to set up my own business. Furthermore, I have just booked a holiday that I have not dared to do for a very long time. Thank you,”

Jim from Melbourne Australia said:

My doctor says I am in burnout and I have to take a long break from my job. During this time I have been reading your website and all those articles on your weblog for months now. I cannot honestly do justice to the support I have got from your words of wisdom. So much you say has given me a totally new understanding of the complexity of my mind. So much of that information fits my situation so perfectly I have been able to turn my life around. What absolutely amazes me is that I have had all that fantastic help and not paid a penny. Before I had so much conflicting advice from psychotherapists and doctors I was at a complete loss and almost bankrupted. Your words and explanations were so true to me I could not help but feel confident and begin to change anything I did not like or did not really believe anymore. I find it amazing what I can do by simply changing the way I think about things. I just thought I would let you know what a great job you are doing.

Thanks mate.

Janice from Hong Kong  said:

During the coaching sessions I was freighted at first what came out of my subconscious. I am now ashamed with myself for all those years of hiding from what I really thought was so shocking. You guided me to see the situation in a completely different light and now I am not shocked anymore. I have come to accept myself completely including my past. What is more I have used that discovery to fully understand who I am and what those secrets really mean to me. I feel as though a huge heavy blanket has been removed from my life. The evidence is that things are really beginning to open up for me and I am really enjoying my life for the first time since I can remember. Thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.